Curious about sex Psychology
Would not it be nice to know other people are thinking about. But while we are still far from mastering the art of telepathy, and thus will have to remain in the dark.
However, modern psychology, thanks to extensive research in the areas of sexual behavior of men and women, can help us more accurately identify or at least go a certain way to understand the underlying motives of behavior and chemical reactions that occur during courtship, a permanent relationship, and of sex.
When it comes to sex around there and then there is a lot of myths. It is easy to fall prey to rumors and misconceptions surrounding the desire, sexual activity, flirting, preferences of both men and women. To help dispel this misinformation can be a huge amount of scientific research in the field of sex research psychology, of course, if you know where to look for them. All information provided below is derived from the doctors, scientists and therapists, reveal interesting aspects of interpersonal relationships and communication. The world of romance, sex and love are still pretty vague, but those 10 facts can help make it a little more clarity. And if not, then at least, will surprise you.
10. The body speaks louder than words
55% of communication is not through words and body language. All gestures, beginning with crossed hands and ending with a look at the phone display, is a sure sign that a person or you do not listen, or he is not interested, or he wants to avoid a conversation. Understanding body language can be a great help in flirting. Wanting to show sympathy, a woman can be a man face to face, touching his hair, smile and hold eye contact. Those tokens can feed a man. If these gestures are body and a man and a woman, it can be said with certainty that the affection is mutual. It is very important tone of the interlocutor. About 38% of your relationship to the person laid down in the intonation, while the words give only 7% of information.
9. The tendency to change not incorporated into DNA
It was felt that men are more prone to changes. But is it? Studies have shown that women change with the same, if not more, likely, especially if there is a guarantee that your partner will never know about it. According to sexologists, change is more likely to happen because of the quality of the relationship, than for biological and genetic factors. In other words, not all men have a predisposition to change, the same applies to women. Although the game can start pushing for such changes chemical factors, such as testosterone and a gene responsible for the search of thrills, more important are still the relationship itself.
A lot of people (both men and women) could get the "Oscar" for his "performance" in bed. Numerous studies have shown that women at least once pretend to orgasm in their sexual life. Among men do only 25%. The justification usually result in too severe fatigue, a desire to protect the feelings of the partner, but the main reason may be the attitude toward sex. Some believe that without an orgasm is not "real" sex. That is, each time, both partners need to have an orgasm. But if you think of it as a mandatory condition, it is likely everything will be more likely to deal with simulation.
7. Sex - is the power of
There are many ways to demonstrate its strength. For men and women, sex often becomes an arena where they fight for power, to win and lose. Many of us know the actions and gestures that symbolize domination, power and control during sex. But here we must be careful: the desire to shock or even humiliate the partner can lead to dysfunction, especially if both partners do not get the same satisfaction. Although there are not a lot of data on this issue, it is assumed that the reason lies in the thirst for power. But power can be a source of great excitement and satisfaction for both partners, which will diversify their sexual life, if used in the right context.
6. Sex Toys
Studies have shown that women who use sex toys have increased libido, and it allows you to get more pleasure from sex. Contrary to popular belief, men do not have to feel a sense of inferiority, if the Lady would use the toy.
5. Good girls like bad guys
This concept is well known. Its essence lies in the fact that women are often more attracted to a man-a rebel who plays by his own rules and rude to people, especially women. No matter how disappointing the good guys, it really is true - but only under certain circumstances. Studies have suggested that women are more attracted to the rebels and bullies only during ovulation. During this period, women consistently behave more openly with them, but only interested in short-term relationships. So, in the end, luck is on the side of good and caring guys.
4. Did you like it?
People are not always selfish. Almost everyone wants to be a partner feeling satisfied, but this is not a guarantee of success. Men are much more often and more quickly reach orgasm during sex than a woman, and this discrepancy was the subject of discussion in the scientific community. Why women do not orgasm? Another, and perhaps more right question when she can experience it? The value is a number of factors: how many times she had with this partner, what feelings she feels for him, if she wanted this relationship if there is diversity in the bed. These data help to dispel the myth of well-established that the size of certain parts of the body is the decisive factor, or that women just do not like this man. Although this can also be. However, in most cases it's much more difficult: 90% of the problems in achieving orgasm are psychological.
3. Sexual flyuidnost
The idea of sexual flyuidnosti is that a person throughout life is prone to change their sexual preferences in terms of who attracts him, with whom he goes to bed, and how to define themselves in a sexual context. Women often attributed to greater sexual flyuidnost, while men are considered to be quite adamant in their preferences. But recent studies have shown that male stereotypes in this area are less certain than previously thought, and differences in sexual flyuidnosti men and women are not so many. For example, more than half of the participants who identified themselves as gay and lesbians, reported that they attract not only people of your gender. A significant percentage of homosexual men and women also said that they had sex with a person of the opposite sex within the last year.
2. Watch - it's not bad!
Is it good? Or bad? Whether to leave the rest of their lives? It turns into a loser in sex? Despite our moral priorities, some studies claim that watching adult movies is not so bad. Moreover, the positive effect is greater than the negative. In social terms, viewing such video may result in the recognition of modern gender differences and new values. This, in turn, can strengthen the relationship.
1. After the break
Is there a better way to forget someone than to find another? For many students, it is a good remedy to soothe a broken heart. For one of the students were asked to keep a diary of their sexual activity within three months after a breakup. In 66% of women had sex in the three-month period, with a third of them did it to get back at or depart from the separation. Help bridge the gap, restore their self-esteem, or revenge against the man who gave you - the loss of a partner, it may be a huge motivating factor for the occasional novel.