Imaginary friends of your children, or when it's time to sound the alarm and lead their child to a psychologist?
Probably not all of us have childhood imaginary friend, but those who are still lucky enough to see her baby, talking with emptiness, is clearly not to be envied. Most psychologists believe that there will be a fictional one can for several reasons: it can be a violent fantasy of your child, the fear, the feeling of abandonment and loneliness, as well as the fear of punishment for any offenses committed previously.
To say that it is a permanent phenomenon, too, can not. Experts say that by 7 - 9 years children forget about their imaginary friends. In today's article, we have prepared for you a few stories of mothers, fathers and older brothers who dared tell the public what they were told their kids and brothers about his imaginary friend. To say that the relatives of these fine children were in shock - it's nothing to say. Sometimes it is necessary to reduce a child to a specialist. At times, it can only help to understand what is really going on with the child, and where do such terrible imaginary friends.
1. "He has no face"
The story is told readers of the blog of a young father, who was very concerned that his three year old son has ceased to sleep normally and constantly talked about his imaginary friend will soon come to the parents' bedroom. "My three year old son always told me about the so-called" terrible man ", which for some reason is his imaginary friend. He lives in his bedroom and comes to my son, when my wife and I sleep soundly. Once I made a terrible mistake of asking how is this "terrible man looks like? My son said, "He has no face. It is flat. And today, he said that he would remain at you with his mother in the room. Will be watching. "
2 "You'll get used to kill"
"The parent of one of my students told us at a meeting that he is concerned about the state of his son. The boy's father said that his child is seven years is constantly talking about some invisible ghost, who tells him and plays in his room. The boy said that this ghost is called "Captain", and he is an old man with a beard. In addition, he said the boy, when he grew up, his job will be to murder people, and that "Captain" will he say who it was to kill. The child constantly crying and tells him he does not want to kill, when he grows up, but "Captain" says that he has no choice, and that he was after some time get used to killing. " It seems that the time to go to a child psychologist. Not even so, it's time to run!
This young man by the name of Nilson decided to tell his story about how he learned about the so-called imaginary friend of his younger brother. "My younger brother was an imaginary friend named Roger. He lived under our coffee table in the living room. He had a wife and nine children. Roger and his family have lived peacefully with us for three years. One day my little brother announced that Roger is no longer budetzhit in our house, because he killed him, azaodno his family. I do not know if he remembers it, but at that time he was very remorseful for his actions. In general, the whole story disturbs me still. "
4. "That man,"
This story has decided to tell the user social network Reddit. The man was very worried and did not know what to do. "My daughter told me about a man who came into her room every night and inflicted sign of the cross on her forehead. At first I thought that my child just nightmares, and so fell asleep with her, and then when I saw that she was quietly and peacefully asleep, went to his bedroom. I expected that, because of my presence in her room, her daughter will be easier to fall asleep, and she will not be afraid of the terrible and incomprehensible uncle. One day I invited me to visit his mother and told her the story, which is told before, my favorite girl. Mom pulled out of the bag a couple of old photographs and handed them to me. I saw them on my father, who was standing next to our family home, smiling. For the record, he died 16 years ago. Suddenly my daughter ran up to us and shouted in horror: "This is the man that night, constantly coming to me!". Later, my mother told me that when I was little, my dad is always on his forehead I drew the sign of the cross. Why he did it, I did not understand. And what shall I do with my baby? ". But it is really vital question.